If you don't respect yourself...

...at least respect your husband. 

That's the simplest way I can put it.  Don't dress like a homeless bum, nor a streetwalker.  Dress your children neatly and cleanly.  Remember, you and your family are a representation of your military spouse to his superiors as well as his coworkers. 

Time and time again I have wanted to scratch my corneas out at the pure sight of some of these women here.  Just two days ago a military spouse walked out her back door (which faces half the houses here) and was yelling and waving her arms in the air to a neighbor who lived across the field.  Mind you, it was seven o'clock in the morning, so she was only wearing a nightshirt.  When she raised her arms, she exposed herself entirely from the waist down.

Then there are those who are skinny and believe they're God's gift to army wives, and walk around in next to nothing.  Personally, I don't care what they wear, but it looks bad if your husband's superiors see this or their spouses.  Especially, but not limited to, the military balls.  I have seen my fair share of pictures or complete wrecks dressed in the sluttiest dresses they could find.

Just remember, you represent yourself, your family, and especially your spouse.  Keep it clean and appropriate, please.


Final note, if you're working at the shopettes on post, or the px/commissary, please cover your tits up.  I don't need to see them, and to be honest, it's not something I'm sure anyone else cares to see.  I know that it's awesome to be a single girl working amongst a plethora of single soldiers, but you look like a slut.  Cover up.  Your gigantic boobs are not cute swinging into my cup of coffee.  I don't need any breastmilk, I filled it with enough creamer.  Besides, no guy worth his weight is going to bring someone like you home to his mother, he's just going to hump and dump you.